We recently received an email from a Diaper Lover (in France so her English is a tad rough) and I wanted to share an excerpt from it because it is quite enlightening into the mindset of individuals who enjoy the situation.
“I’m a french girl, I’m 22 years old and I like wearing diapers. There are much more men than women with this f@t*sh*sm, you can easily notice it by consulting websites.
I’m not sure about where it comes from, but I started to be fascinated by diapers when I was around 5 or 6. I was a very shy and anxious child, my mother was depressed and sometimes a bit violent, but many DLs say they had a happy childhood, even if some of them suffered from abuse. Many AB or DL were enure tic, but I was not. I have a borderline personality disorder but I want to insist on the fact that a large majority of ABDL has NO psychiatric problem…and, of course, many borderlines are not diaper lovers.
I really started wearing diapers (again) when I was 19 years old. I like feeling like a baby …. But sometimes it is just a way to relax when I’m anxious, I feel protected, it’s soft and warm.
I’m just a normal person, with a strange f#t*sh*sm.”