So the relationship between Bachelorette Andi Dorfman, 27, and new fiancé Josh Murray, 29, seemed perfect, really perfect when The Bachelorette wrapped 3 weeks ago. The two had amazing chemistry, they wanted the same things out of life, they are both fiercely loyal and they even live in the SAME city!
But reports keep coming in that there is trouble in Bachelorette paradise aka Atlanta, Georgia. On After the Final Rose Nick Viall decided to reveal to the nation and to Josh that Andi had sexual relations with him in the Fantasy Suite and insiders now claim in Ok Magazine that Josh is having a really hard time with this.
“There are major jealousy, control and trust issues,” ….. “Josh is insecure — and Andi is finding it really unattractive.”
The source claims that “Josh is still disgusted,” over her FS time with Nick Viall. “He tries to act laid-back, but the whole thing is really bugging him.”
“Andi feels like Josh doesn’t trust her in the slightest,” says an insider.
“Josh has a pretty jealous personality and a bad temper.” The source also claims that during their post-finale tour, Andi hated the fact that “Josh would take control and answer questions for her. Sometimes he barely let her get a word in. She’s had to tell him to let her speak for herself a number of times.”
UPDATE: Dec 8th, 2015: Andi Dorfman and Josh Murray have officially broken up!
Well look, it’s no surprise Josh is a dude and he is pretty old fashioned. He believes in traditional roles as we discussed in the enneagram breakdown of their relationship. He is going to struggle with Andi’s independence.
This is what I said about the problem areas for them:
“Ones (Andi) can become critical and judgmental of everyone including themselves and their partner. Ones often feel others are not “trying hard enough” ultimately because they never think THEY are trying hard enough.
So she could come down on Josh at some point if she doesn’t feel he is “trying hard enough” which ultimately breeds resentment.
And if Andi starts to do that, Josh (Six) could become increasingly emotionally reactive and insecure since the Six is looking for the One to be a rock of stability.
Andi has to be careful about being too critical of Josh or it will drive him deeper into feelings of anxiety and insecurity.”
Josh’ big weakness is insecurity as a Six— “Security” is what they crave. And the FS situation with Nick Viall is playing on his weaknesses.
The source continues…..
“They’re learning a lot about each other,” ….. “Not necessarily good things.”
Ut oh!!!!
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