On the Vanderpump Rules reunion show part one Kristen Doute revealed that she is dating SUR busboy and friend to Lisa Vanderpump’s son 21-year-old Max, James Kennedy.
Tom explained that he and James were good friends and that Tom was working on several music projects with James. He also expressed outrage that James was on his bed with Kristen using HIS condoms.
So the James situation is a ‘situation’.
Kristen explained her affair with James Kennedy in her Bravo blog:
Tom and I are both guilty of pointing fingers and playing the victim in our relationship. I can repeat ten times over that I don’t condone my infidelity and that two wrongs don’t make a right, ever. To set the record straight: I did have an emotional/sexual affair with someone years ago and I did sleep with Jax. Tom cheated with five girls in five and a half years.
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Back to December. . .I want to be very clear that James was not “Tom’s friend” who stole me away as a ploy for revenge. James was our friend and after our break-up, Tom stopped coming around. He fell off of the map and was only hanging out with Ariana, Scheana, and Shay. I didn’t plan for James and I to start dating. He is an amazing friend to me and I truly thank him for giving me the tough love I needed after the break up. He put his foot down against my tears and told me to move on the way that Tom already had. He wasn’t trying to woo me in to bed or screw Tom over — it was a natural transition that neither of us expected or planned. He became one of my best friends and the chemistry was undeniable.
After Tom found out about James and I were seeing each other, he gave James an ultimatum that he could either be friends with Tom and stop speaking to me or vice versa. I was home for the holidays when James called me to say that the situation was too complicated and that he would have to stop talking to me in order to reconcile his friendship with Tom. A few days later when I got back to LA, James and I naturally fell back in to place and he made his decision. It is easy for Tom to play the victim in this situation — that I “stole” his bandmate when the truth is, Tom was using James to produce his tracks. As Tom’s ex-girlfriend, I owed him nothing. He had already moved on to a relationship with a girl he had cheated on me with. It was not my responsibility to deny my happiness out of sensitivity for him anymore.”
Well I guess both Tom and Kristen got what they deserved. They both sound happy/angry–happy in their new relationships, angry that the other is with the person they are with. We all know if you make your bed, you eventually have to lie in it…..
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The second season reunion was filmed on January 10, 2014.
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